Unlocked

Often, too often, we blame others for not understanding us. We expect people to know us, like the back of their hand, like a hookworm residing near our cerebral cortex.
Have you ever wondered, how much do you even know yourself? :)

We know ourselves less than we thought. Really.
(Try describing yourself in 3 paragraphs. Show it to your closest friends and see if they agree with you. You'll be surprised!)

Everybody is entitled to have their own opinions.
To a certain extent, what they think do matter. Perhaps too much, sometimes. But isn't the most important thing is that they are wiling to listen to what you have to say, and that they would still give you their full support?

Friends may not agree with you all the time. Friends may not understand everything that you do. But they're willing to stand by you through it all. Isn't that enough?  :)




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黑暗中 寂静伸出的双手 
冰冷的空气像火 害怕又收手 
 

路太远 谁的眼神能永远 
忘了跟你一起走 怎样才会懂 
 

记忆里 爱应该总是温柔 
有了这一切 才能不怕黑夜 
 

是我勇敢太久 
决定为你一个人而活 
不能说出口 那么折磨 
 

勇敢了太久 
城市充满短暂的烟火 
无处躲 
照亮了沉默 爱原来寂寞 
 

谁说过 爱会让人不自由 
所以你要我等候 换你的追求 
有太多 快乐自私做藉口 
你让我最后 把心痛等永远

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Love.
We're all at the giving end as well as the receiving end. Granted, it may not be for and from the same person, but we love and we're loved.
Sometimes I do wonder, whether they are worthy of the love given.
I wonder, if I deserve what is given to me.

Love is never a balanced equation. One side is always more than the other. 

Be nice to those who's willing to walk a thousand miles to bring you the shiny pebbles you've always wanted. Things that people on your receiving end aren't willing to provide for you.

We keep telling ourselves its OK, because we didn't order them to do it for you. "They willingly did it for us. Why do we have to be responsible for it? "

We abuse those who gave us their love, we take them for granted. Just like how those whom we're giving our love to are abusing us, taking us for granted.


It's a blessing to receive. Because, deep in our hearts we know it, we don't deserve to receive in the first place.


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突然发现站了好久  不知道要往哪走 　　
还不想回家的我 　　再多人陪只会更寂寞 　　

许多话题关于我 　　就连我也有听过 　　
我的快乐要被认可 　　委屈却没有人诉说 　　

夜把心洋葱般剥落 　　拿掉防卫剩下什么 　　
为什么脆弱时候 　　想你更多 　　

如果你也听说 　　有没有想过我 　　
像普通旧朋友 　　还是你依然会心疼我 　　
好多好多的话想对你说

 

悬着一颗心没着落 　　要怎么附和 　　
舍不得又无可奈何 　　

如果你也听说 　　
会不会相信我 　　
对流言会附和 　　还是你知道我还是我 　　
跌跌撞撞才明白了许多 　　懂我的人就你一个 　　
想到你想起我 　　胸口依然温热